Love And Friendship
Often times we encounter a lot of people separating friendship and love because theythink "if the friendship has dived with love, it will be difficult." Especially for those whoestablish friendships between men and women. Friendship is a form of a beautifulrelationship between people, where love is present to give a friendly smile and coloring.Without love, friendship may be in content with disappointment, resentment, anger,selfishness and other things that make a friendship is no longer beautiful.
Stop making the line between love and friendship, let them remain good friends, whomust be in alignment is not a destructive love of friendship. Love beautify our friendship.Often just love scapegoats as a destroyer of a friendship. One big! should be with thelove, friendship will be more enjoyable.
Friends who are experiencing problems in friendship, do not blame love! but try refiningyour friendship with love, kerana love will cover all the mistakes, forgive easily and makethe impossible become possible.
Friends who have not understood the meaning of friendship, try to start a friendship.Because of the friendship you guys will be more mature, not selfish and learn tounderstand. that things are not always the case with our desires.
Friends who are disappointed with the friendship, ponder. Do I have to undergofriendship with correct and try to understand the meaning of friendship for your life .Want , spirit, understanding, maturity, tenderness and weakness of goodthings we will meet in friendship.
Selasa, 03 Mei 2011
Senin, 02 Mei 2011
Stranded Makes me clubbing and Drug Rehabilitation Center
Drugs and nightlife for almost 2 years to make all the ideals citaku melting. Treasure parents spent only for illicit goods and enjoy freedom. Now, clubbing (sparkling world) has sent me to rehab.
All are still grateful because finally I was able to escape from the bondage of this abject life. Although I must fight it with all the soul berjibaku my body. Oh yes just call me Linda (pseudonym). I was born in the midst of an affluent family. My father was a skipper of coffee, while my mother was an official in one of the government authorities in this city.
Life is filled with mom and dad busy, make me and 3 brothers neglected. The material we are pampered with a range of facilities, good vehicle, a stipend to all my needs met.But one that never father and mother gave, namely compassion. They were too busy with work until we forget the children who so longed for parental love fondling.
Until finally, my first brother died of an overdose putauw. My sister who also bandwagon youngest asleep in the black world. She eloped with her boyfriend because pregnant out of wedlock. All trials that hit my family as well as full already when I got to know the night life with my friends. Stories bukanlagi clubbing rare for me.
Narkobalah that destroy all life. I know these illicit goods is still one of my beloved campus with me. Until I actually made complacent. Almost two years I was taking drugs, all I got from my boyfriend. In fact, I handed kesucianku willing to get their stuff.
Kugeluti free life with my boyfriend has made me familiar with all the pleasures that apparent. We were like husband and wife who no longer know the time and place to be able to vent their desires. I know, all because of the influence of drugs.
In fact, because it has a high dependency, all the treasures I sell my parents to get their stuff. A week I had not drank, it was dead all the joints of my life. Later when things had started to get scarce, I must be willing to give up the car of father to kubarter with the good. Although both my parents know I've become addicted to drugs, but they remained calm, as if nothing happened to me. This is what makes me increasingly desperate and really - really immersed in that world.
In the future - a critical period that is almost unable to save themselves from gerogotan drugs, I met a young man who happened to boarding school alumni. He is still my close neighbors. Apparently he secretly watch all my behavior over the years.
His attention really made me shed a tear. I thought, there are people who want me in kindness. Slowly he began to introduce me to all associated with the religion of Allah.Every time when I have time, he was not bored meet me at home to give me directions to get back into the path of Allah.
Begin then I was aware of the mistake so far. Although still often tempted by the drug and seems unable to escape from him, but the presence of a friend was so strong. He also suggested I enter rehab as a first step to start a new life.
Another did not occur again, I went straight home and started living there. I went during last Ramadan. Almost every night I cry because of regret. Now I spend time in rehab.And my spirit began to grow again. Thank you friend.
All are still grateful because finally I was able to escape from the bondage of this abject life. Although I must fight it with all the soul berjibaku my body. Oh yes just call me Linda (pseudonym). I was born in the midst of an affluent family. My father was a skipper of coffee, while my mother was an official in one of the government authorities in this city.
Life is filled with mom and dad busy, make me and 3 brothers neglected. The material we are pampered with a range of facilities, good vehicle, a stipend to all my needs met.But one that never father and mother gave, namely compassion. They were too busy with work until we forget the children who so longed for parental love fondling.
Until finally, my first brother died of an overdose putauw. My sister who also bandwagon youngest asleep in the black world. She eloped with her boyfriend because pregnant out of wedlock. All trials that hit my family as well as full already when I got to know the night life with my friends. Stories bukanlagi clubbing rare for me.
Narkobalah that destroy all life. I know these illicit goods is still one of my beloved campus with me. Until I actually made complacent. Almost two years I was taking drugs, all I got from my boyfriend. In fact, I handed kesucianku willing to get their stuff.
Kugeluti free life with my boyfriend has made me familiar with all the pleasures that apparent. We were like husband and wife who no longer know the time and place to be able to vent their desires. I know, all because of the influence of drugs.
In fact, because it has a high dependency, all the treasures I sell my parents to get their stuff. A week I had not drank, it was dead all the joints of my life. Later when things had started to get scarce, I must be willing to give up the car of father to kubarter with the good. Although both my parents know I've become addicted to drugs, but they remained calm, as if nothing happened to me. This is what makes me increasingly desperate and really - really immersed in that world.
In the future - a critical period that is almost unable to save themselves from gerogotan drugs, I met a young man who happened to boarding school alumni. He is still my close neighbors. Apparently he secretly watch all my behavior over the years.
His attention really made me shed a tear. I thought, there are people who want me in kindness. Slowly he began to introduce me to all associated with the religion of Allah.Every time when I have time, he was not bored meet me at home to give me directions to get back into the path of Allah.
Begin then I was aware of the mistake so far. Although still often tempted by the drug and seems unable to escape from him, but the presence of a friend was so strong. He also suggested I enter rehab as a first step to start a new life.
Another did not occur again, I went straight home and started living there. I went during last Ramadan. Almost every night I cry because of regret. Now I spend time in rehab.And my spirit began to grow again. Thank you friend.
Family Vacation Joint Options
Family holiday event because it is not easy to implement given the busy schedules of family members different. Once programmed the family vacation should be an agreement which belongs to the whole family. Togetherness in enjoying the holidays willbecome something very significant and invaluable.
The period with the family is very happy for the whole family, because while enjoying a holiday is a different matter with daily routines. We can call it a special day to be withfamily during the holidays.
Family holiday stories that are not easily forgotten the next exciting then make familieswant to be able to enjoy a family vacation. And it is reasonable for every family
The period with the family is very happy for the whole family, because while enjoying a holiday is a different matter with daily routines. We can call it a special day to be withfamily during the holidays.
Family holiday stories that are not easily forgotten the next exciting then make familieswant to be able to enjoy a family vacation. And it is reasonable for every family
CAUSATIVE VERB “HAVE”
CAUSATIVE VERB “HAVE”
Causative “have” is followed by the simple form of a verb, not an infinitive. (causative “have” diikuti oleh verb 1 (tanpa tambahan s/-es), bukan diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)).
Examples:
- I had John repair my bike. (CORRECT)
- I had John to repair my bike. (INCORRECT,because it is followed by an infinitive)
è Kalimat ke 2 salah karena diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)
► “Have” gives the idea that “X” request “Y” to do something. ( “Have” menunjukkan bahwa “X” meminta “Y” untuk melakukan sesuatu.)
è The formula is: “X” has/have/had “Y” do something (simple form) (rumusnya adalah “X” has/have/had “Y” melakukakn sesuatu (verb dalam bentuk sederhana(verb1 tanpa tambahan s/-es)).
Examples: - Mary has John carry her bag.
Means(artinya): John carried the bag because Mary ask him to. ( John membawa tas karena Mary menyuruhnya).
-I have Jane put my books
Means: Jane put my books because I ask her to.
- Tom had Jane clean the room yesterday
è Using “had” because the adverb of time is yesterday. But still the verb is in simple form.
HAVE SOME THING DONE
(HAVE +Past Participle (Verb3)
The past participle(verb 3) is used after “have’ to give a passive meaning.
Examples: - I had my watch repaired (by someone) yesterday.
Means: I caused my watch to be repaired by someone. (saya menyuruh orang lain untuk memperbaiki jam tangan saya kemarin).
-I have my hair cut à means: I asked someone to cut my hair. (saya menyuruh seseorang untuk mencukur rambut saya)
- I am having my car washed at the moment à means: I am asking someone to wash my car at the moment. (pada saat ini saya SEDANG menyuruh seseorang mencuci mobil saya.)
You have to know the different between Have something done and present Perfect/ past perfect form.
HAVE SOMETHING DONE: I have my hair cut à means: I ask someone to cut my hair.
PRESENT PERFECT(S+HAVE/HAS+V3): I have cut my hair àmeans: you cut your own hair.
PATTERNS for HAVE SOMETHING DONE:
· S + HAVE/HAS + OBJECT + VERB 3
· S + HAD + OBJECT +VERB3 +PAST TIME
· S + TOBE (IS/AM/ARE) + HAVING +OBJECT + VERB3 + NOW/RIGHT NOW/ AT THE MOMENT.
CONCLUSION:
- Use active sentence for causative “have” (using simple form of a verb) and passive sentence for have something done (using verb 3).
- For causative “have” à after subject you have to use the right form of “have” whether it is “have or has or had” then the object is people (someone), after that,you have to use a simple form of a verb (verb 1 without s/-es) in any kind of adverb of time (present time or past time still use simple form of a verb), you just choose the right form of “have” à “have or has” for present time, “had “ for past time.
- For have something done just follow the pattern.
EXERCISES:
Fill in the blanks with the right form of causative have, and choose the right form of verb given in the brakets. (isilah dengan bentuk causative have yang benar, dan pilih salah satu bentuk verb yang benar yang diberikan di dalam kurung)
1. We had our treasury Bought our new books yesterday. (buy / buys / bought / to buy)
2. She has her mom cooked dinner for her. (cook / cooks / cooked / to cook )
3. He had his brother done his homework last night (do / does / did / done)
4. Tom is having Bill written the report at the moment. (write / writes / writing / written)
5. Mike has Jenni saved his data. (save / saving / saves / saved)
6. Bob has his packages delivered by the postman. ( deliver / delivers / delivered / delivery)
7. Eddy had_his data changed by his secretary last week. (change / changes / changed / changing)
8. Marie is having her house painted by the workmen at the moment. ( paint / painting / painted / paints)
9. Jonny has his car parked by the parking man. (park / parks / parking / parked)
10. They are having their maid cleaned their room right now. (clean / cleaned / cleans / cleaning)
THE END OF THE TEST
Causative “have” is followed by the simple form of a verb, not an infinitive. (causative “have” diikuti oleh verb 1 (tanpa tambahan s/-es), bukan diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)).
Examples:
- I had John repair my bike. (CORRECT)
- I had John to repair my bike. (INCORRECT,because it is followed by an infinitive)
è Kalimat ke 2 salah karena diikuti oleh infinitif (to+verb1)
► “Have” gives the idea that “X” request “Y” to do something. ( “Have” menunjukkan bahwa “X” meminta “Y” untuk melakukan sesuatu.)
è The formula is: “X” has/have/had “Y” do something (simple form) (rumusnya adalah “X” has/have/had “Y” melakukakn sesuatu (verb dalam bentuk sederhana(verb1 tanpa tambahan s/-es)).
Examples: - Mary has John carry her bag.
Means(artinya): John carried the bag because Mary ask him to. ( John membawa tas karena Mary menyuruhnya).
-I have Jane put my books
Means: Jane put my books because I ask her to.
- Tom had Jane clean the room yesterday
è Using “had” because the adverb of time is yesterday. But still the verb is in simple form.
HAVE SOME THING DONE
(HAVE +Past Participle (Verb3)
The past participle(verb 3) is used after “have’ to give a passive meaning.
Examples: - I had my watch repaired (by someone) yesterday.
Means: I caused my watch to be repaired by someone. (saya menyuruh orang lain untuk memperbaiki jam tangan saya kemarin).
-I have my hair cut à means: I asked someone to cut my hair. (saya menyuruh seseorang untuk mencukur rambut saya)
- I am having my car washed at the moment à means: I am asking someone to wash my car at the moment. (pada saat ini saya SEDANG menyuruh seseorang mencuci mobil saya.)
You have to know the different between Have something done and present Perfect/ past perfect form.
HAVE SOMETHING DONE: I have my hair cut à means: I ask someone to cut my hair.
PRESENT PERFECT(S+HAVE/HAS+V3): I have cut my hair àmeans: you cut your own hair.
PATTERNS for HAVE SOMETHING DONE:
· S + HAVE/HAS + OBJECT + VERB 3
· S + HAD + OBJECT +VERB3 +PAST TIME
· S + TOBE (IS/AM/ARE) + HAVING +OBJECT + VERB3 + NOW/RIGHT NOW/ AT THE MOMENT.
CONCLUSION:
- Use active sentence for causative “have” (using simple form of a verb) and passive sentence for have something done (using verb 3).
- For causative “have” à after subject you have to use the right form of “have” whether it is “have or has or had” then the object is people (someone), after that,you have to use a simple form of a verb (verb 1 without s/-es) in any kind of adverb of time (present time or past time still use simple form of a verb), you just choose the right form of “have” à “have or has” for present time, “had “ for past time.
- For have something done just follow the pattern.
EXERCISES:
Fill in the blanks with the right form of causative have, and choose the right form of verb given in the brakets. (isilah dengan bentuk causative have yang benar, dan pilih salah satu bentuk verb yang benar yang diberikan di dalam kurung)
1. We had our treasury Bought our new books yesterday. (buy / buys / bought / to buy)
2. She has her mom cooked dinner for her. (cook / cooks / cooked / to cook )
3. He had his brother done his homework last night (do / does / did / done)
4. Tom is having Bill written the report at the moment. (write / writes / writing / written)
5. Mike has Jenni saved his data. (save / saving / saves / saved)
6. Bob has his packages delivered by the postman. ( deliver / delivers / delivered / delivery)
7. Eddy had_his data changed by his secretary last week. (change / changes / changed / changing)
8. Marie is having her house painted by the workmen at the moment. ( paint / painting / painted / paints)
9. Jonny has his car parked by the parking man. (park / parks / parking / parked)
10. They are having their maid cleaned their room right now. (clean / cleaned / cleans / cleaning)
THE END OF THE TEST
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